Holiday Reflections From The Craziest Year Ever

Hello Lovelies,

I wanted to take a moment on this Christmas day to wish you all a very Merry Christmas and Happy Holiday season.

It's been a wild ride this 2020, but I am so grateful to have had the opportunity to meet so many of you online, to create a community where everyone can feel welcome and loved and to have a space for girls of color to be soft, feminine, and lovely.

I am so excited for the New Year, and to see where The Feminine Fancy will go.

I realized that this year, as I was finding my voice online, I was also losing my voice. Instead of remaining true to who I am, I found myself trying out different video styles that I noticed other people doing, because I wanted my videos to do as well as theirs were. I completely lost sight of why I started making videos in the first place.

But, I've realized that if I'm going to have this platform, I'm going to be 100% me. I'm going to create what I want and what interests me, regardless of if it does "well" or not. I'm going to watch and enjoy other creators' content, without allowing it to influence my own content too much. I'm going to continue being my girly, feminine, classy self, and make videos and posts to help you along your feminine journey as well.

I love so many of the creators in the feminine community online, and I appreciate all of their content. I love their videos and blog posts so much, but I'm realizing that there is space for all of us to be completely ourselves, without worrying about views, likes, reposts or anything else! That's not why we're here! That's not why I'm here.

That said, I want to thank you all for sticking by me this year, as I've stumbled through and tried to find my way. As I've struggled with comparison and perfection. And as I've learned to truly be myself.

I love you fancies more than you know! And I can not wait to see what 2021 has in store for us.

Merry Christmas and Happy Holidays from me and mine to you and yours.

I will see you in the New Year.